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I want divorce because my wife, children beat me, man tells court

“I had to invite the police and they were arrested”

• March 9, 2021
Gavel used to illustrate the story
Gavel used to illustrate the story

A businessman, Abideen Adebayo, on Tuesday urged an Ile-Tuntun Customary Court in Ibadan to dissolve the 27-year-old marriage between him and his wife, Sherifat.

He told the court that Ms. Sherifat and two of their four children were in the habit of battering him, hence his request for a divorce.

“Sherifat is such a disobedient and troublesome woman and has repeatedly shown she is not a good homemaker.

“Due to her constant nagging, Sherifat abandoned my home for the past six years, but visits at Christmas.

“On December 25, 2020, Sherifat instigated her two eldest children to join her in brutalising me.

“I had to invite the police and they were arrested,’’ he said.

The petitioner also told the court that his estranged wife was fond of going to his office to cause trouble.

Mr. Adebayo tendered a video recording of his last December bashing at the court.

In her defence, Ms. Sherifat, who did not deny allegations levelled against her, consented to the suit but told the court that Mr. Adebayo did not care about their children.

“Adebayo has played no role in the education of our four children as I had to borrow money to send them to school.

“Moreover, he destroyed my four sewing machines.

“Adebayo was the first to attack me as he tore my clothes when I arrived at his home on December 25, 2020,’’ she stated.

In her own testimony, the first child of the family corroborated Ms. Sherifat’s submission and said her father refused to show any interest in her education because she refused to wash her step-mother’s menstrual pad.

“My father told me that if I refused to wash his second wife’s menstrual pad, he would not pay my school fees,’’ she said.

Delivering judgment, the President of the Court, Henry Agbaje, condemned the battering of a father by his children and warned the children and their mother to refrain from such disrespectful action.

Mr. Agbaje subsequently dissolved the union and directed the four children to stay with whoever pleased them since they were all grown-ups.

He, however, ordered Mr. Adebayo to continue to be responsible for their education and other welfare.

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