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Parenting Crisis: Lagos deputy gov warns parents against misplaced priorities

Mr Hamzat said many children were no longer interested in caring for their ageing parents and had left them vulnerable and alone.

• March 16, 2025
Lagos deputy governor Obafemi Hamzat
Lagos deputy governor Obafemi Hamzat [Credit: The Guardian Nigeria]

Lagos Deputy Governor Obafemi Hamzat has expressed concerns over neglect of family values, urging parents to re-examine their roles.

Mr Hamzat made the call at the 20th Justice Muri Okunola Memorial Ramadan Lecture on Sunday in Agidingbi, Ikeja.

“As parents, how are we raising our children? The truth is that if we go by what we see, a lot of people have failed as parents.

“It is very scary, especially for this crop of generation. Let us groom and train our children to be ready for life’s challenges,” he said.

He emphasised the need for parents to take responsibility for their children’s upbringing, ensuring they would be taught the importance of family and care for one another.

Mr Hamzat said many children were no longer interested in caring for their ageing parents and had left them vulnerable and alone.

The deputy governor implored parents to inculcate empathy and morals into their children.

Mr Hamzat also expressed worry at the rate of abandonment of families by men, who left their wives and children to fend for themselves.

The deputy governor called on parents and religious leaders to take action to address the parenting crisis.

He advised religious leaders to continuously preach love, care and unity.

In a lecture entitled “The Distress in Family Values and Morality in our Society: A Multi-dimensional Approach”, Imam Abdulrahman Adangba urged Muslims to believe in Allah and rely on His promises.

The cleric listed some essential steps to revive societal values, emphasising the importance of truthfulness and trustworthiness.

He urged the government officials not to disappoint the masses who placed their trust in them.

Mr Adangba also urged employers of labour not to deny wages to their employees.

(NAN)

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